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Eddiesolds · 56-60, M
I think so too.Why lie??
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@Eddiesolds Why do it? Risking your relationship for chasing of the wind
Eddiesolds · 56-60, M
@Justmeraeagain It doesnt make sense. When i meet a woman, im leaving here. Id rather be living with her in the real world.
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@Eddiesolds much better
Gangstress · 36-40, F
Yeh i do wonder why people do that. I swear im the only one who was like to their mrs, i went on this site ep to figure out peoples experiences of depression. It was really that simple
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
Monogamy is an outdated concept. We were meant to have multiple partners throughout our lifetimes…
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
@Justmeraeagain If you haven’t cheated then you’ve at least been cheated on. We’ve all experienced it. It’s a normal part of dating and relationships..
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@Quetzalcoatlus only cheaters tried to justify behavior by saying everyone does it
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
@Justmeraeagain Not justifying it just saying that we all experience it. It’s a normal experience in all relationships because humans are not monogamous by nature..
Magenta · F
And yet so many do. Or at least hide it.

Sidenote: I'm not pretending to be innocent here either.
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@Magenta Thier choice, feel sorry for those who trust them, however
Rokasu · 31-35, M
Seems stupid? It is stupid.
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@Rokasu Agree, but some seem like it's fine
ElRengo · 61-69, M
Some people work hard to become a candidate for a deserved divorce.
ElRengo · 61-69, M
@Justmeraeagain
IMO they already did it when had a hidden virtual (or not) 2nd life
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@ElRengo True people who do this usually think nothing they do is thier own fault
ElRengo · 61-69, M
@Justmeraeagain
Adults are the ones that take the costs of adult freedom.
And love, as I conceive it, is also for adults only.
SW-User
Some rather have the fantasy as a means of escaping their real life
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@SW-User Be better to change the real life
summersong · F
Tbh it makes the idea of committed relationships seem like a joke.

And I would argue that a lot of them are lying to themselves as well.
Magenta · F
@summersong[quote] lying to themselves as well[/quote]
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@summersong @summersong chasing greener pastures... An illusion
Stereoguy · 56-60, M
Who is doing this??? ☹️
Stereoguy · 56-60, M
@Justmeraeagain Good for him. 🙂 My wife definitely knows about my account here.
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@Stereoguy Always best to be honest like that
Stereoguy · 56-60, M
@Justmeraeagain She still has a couple of friends from EP on here and she will use my account to chat with them every so often.
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
Agreed. In my estimation, people look online for relationships they don't have or aren't fulfilling in real life.

It's a poor substitute for a real, fulfilling, interpersonal, romatic/sexual relationship.
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@Justmeraeagain I think for a lot of people it's way easier than it used to be. It's fairly easy to get on a phone or computer and start sending out dick pics on blast and see who responds.

I don't think consequences enter into the picture until later if at all.
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@SumKindaMunster If they learn that's one thing, however,it could be a devastating lesson
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@Justmeraeagain Indeed. I don't tolerate infidelity in my relationship, that's definitely a line crossed that you can't come back from.
I hear you .. but can name some here in that scenario who are with/married to someone who is a cheater IRL .. or completely disengaged from their relationship .. forces them to live in a sexless marriage devoid of physical or emotional intimacy.

Neither person is doing right, so how is this any worse ??
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@Stillwaiting in all honesty, nobody can make you do anything if you stay in a sexless marriage that is your choice.
BillyTheKid3603 · 36-40, M
Ive not had a significant other in years sp i dont have to worry bout it LOL

 
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