Melpomene · 26-30, F
Take lessons from your experience. Think of the present and future and think of it in all aspects of your life. What is it that you have / don't have now, what is it that you want and what do you need to change to get where you want to be?
Xperience · 26-30, M
It seems harder to do with people… like, I’d like people, possibly friends to be on this journey with…
But, idk… it seems like I have bad luck or people would rather not deal with me.
I’d say ok, find friends, but in the city I’m in, bars and clubs are some of the only options besides school…
It seems like I just have to say f it and just be friendless OR make toxic friends… it would be a change. But the more I reflect, the Less it feels like actual options and more like picking the lesser or two evils..
Mainly just don’t know how to find decent friends and people that I don’t annoy or bother or catch off guard. I just give people off vibes today, and am always dealing with so much. I’m never just my old positive, joyful self. Is always trauma and triggers and failure and doubt… @Melpomene
What do I do if I can’t make new friends?…
But, idk… it seems like I have bad luck or people would rather not deal with me.
I’d say ok, find friends, but in the city I’m in, bars and clubs are some of the only options besides school…
It seems like I just have to say f it and just be friendless OR make toxic friends… it would be a change. But the more I reflect, the Less it feels like actual options and more like picking the lesser or two evils..
Mainly just don’t know how to find decent friends and people that I don’t annoy or bother or catch off guard. I just give people off vibes today, and am always dealing with so much. I’m never just my old positive, joyful self. Is always trauma and triggers and failure and doubt… @Melpomene
What do I do if I can’t make new friends?…
black4white · 56-60, M
Honestly.... i can say..YES life has thrown you some curves and many of them but you even mentioned that you got some smarts and getting educated...Let me ask you this
Why do you need friends to fix you? YOU fix YOU then find people to chill with and i say this because otherwise you will find the same things you WERE attracted to beforehand and in xx number of years.
Focus on you and you will be surprised
Why do you need friends to fix you? YOU fix YOU then find people to chill with and i say this because otherwise you will find the same things you WERE attracted to beforehand and in xx number of years.
Focus on you and you will be surprised
NoGamesTolerated · F
This is a sad story.