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HellsBelle we are all searching for something different when we connect with people but in my honest opinion it shouldn’t matter. Just because that is your opinion doesn’t mean that goes for everyone
Unless someone is doing it to catfish or with malicious intent that’s an entire different story
Some people probably come here and “dissociate” which is a coping mechanism for trauma that’s why they lie and pretend to be someone that they’re not.
Again if that makes them feel better and as long as they aren’t hurting anyone I don’t see the issue
Just be aware of those people and make a point to actively avoid them if that’s not a quality you like in a person