Our life becomes the sum of where we continuously put our time and energy

Also learning to live by your boundaries without guilt is hard lol Or at least that’s what’s been on my mind. A friend’s circus tent has predictably collapsed. At a certain point I decide that I’ve already given this friend a bunch of support and.. I want to spend Friday night nurturing other areas of my/my kiddo’s life.

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about how you create the life you want by clearing space for opportunities to exist and prioritizing those chances, but that can’t happen if you’re preoccupied with ‘everything else’ , especially circuses that aren’t even yours.

I feel a little irrationally guilty about it, but I’m pretty sure it’s the healthy, balanced thing to do.