Do you ever just ignore your husband

My husband can go all day not texting or calling me while at work, but he can text his bros and go online and bullshit with his forum buddies or buy car parts. Then decides to text me an hour before he's off work to see what I'm doing. Smh not anymore. I will ignore and see him when he gets home

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Primnproper · 56-60, F

Rather than play games, why not tell him it hurts your feelings that he doesn't text you more..not that I agree with texting when at work unless it's an emergency or on a break..

Brando

He has other interests...so what?

Primnproper · 56-60, F

@SteveHamm: I personally don't see what the big deal is..it used to be when you were at work none of us communicated unless there was an emergency and you just caught up at dinner in the evening..

Brando

I agree. I think she's angry at the disparity of attention, but really, that he seems to like his friends more than she. Men need male friends, though, and vice versa.

Primnproper · 56-60, F

@SteveHamm: sounds like it..I cherish my time with my partner but Idont begrudge him his own space when he wants it..

Brando

exactly...

DidIHurtYourFeelings · F

@SteveHamm: he has nothing but bro time. They have guys night and I am not even allowed to have a single friend over. And just to clear it up I bend over backwards for this man so am I disappointed in the lack of attention he gives me, of course because I don't get any attention except for a bs text

Brando

He won't allow you to have a friend over? Then you're right, I didn't understand. I'd divorce his ass.

DidIHurtYourFeelings · F

@SteveHamm: lol no divorce, but like I said it's hurtful trying to be 100 percent supportive of a spouse.and then get a crap text knowing he only sent it to prevent me from being upset.

Brando

That friend rule -- F him. I hate that caveman crap.