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if you ask someone for input: are you actually interested? or you just going through some rituals to do whatever you had planned anyways?

I get the impression that asking for input is becoming fashionable. let's call it participation. and then we can always say that we asked for involvement and we carefully evaluated all contributions before we pushed through our initial planning.

the illusion of freedom is probably worse then clear directions
summersong · F
I rarely ask for input so when I do it’s because I’m actually looking for it.
Doomflower · 36-40, F
If I ask for input I will consider any good ideas that come up.
Stereoguy · 56-60, M
50/50 sometimes I really don't know and am looking for input and other times I am looking for validation of my thoughts.
Powderflask · 26-30, M
I’m not a social person so I don’t care about participation..If I ask for help and opinions it’s because it’s genuinely needed
xuxuguinhu9 · 31-35, T
am interested mostly bcs ill have a sample of what ppl think
AndyH · M
I usually only ask if I need another opinion or thought. So yes.
Magenta · F
You are spot on.
I personally almost never ask.

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