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A married woman was going through a lot of emotional turmoil in her life before , she had problems with her husband and one night down in a beach she made a move for ne and I stopped her , so I messaged her that night and told I cant meet up with her no more . The following day she called up to my house and that night she asked did I wanma go for a spin so I said yes . We ended up in a beach and she met me and it happened again about 5 times .
So then I realized she was getting back at her husband over what he did to her and took it out on me .
After when it finished she turned around to me and said smiling " you like the bad girls" and that's what happened . I never went the full way with her but do you think it's a sin in gods eyes what happened cause being honest my soul isn't right since it happened. The same woman ended up meeting another 4 fellas in that time to get back at her husband and she told me that the love wasnt there no more . I dunno how she's doing nowadays cause I didnt see her in a long time . I hope she's doing better but most of my life the emotional problems or turmoil I went through , the common denominator is woman in my life ,
I cant understand that or is it that are all woman like that . I just need to know that honestly cause when I'm not with then I'm more content and I dont feel that theres a threat in my life when I'm not with them . I cant hit them all with the one brush but all my experiences of pain had to do with woman and when I was younger I got hurt bad by this fella and then I started to look for a woman in my life for comfort .
Can anyone out there figure out this pattern . I'd really appreciate it
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Not all women fool around with other men while unhappily married. Some of us have more self-respect than that. We would either try to resolve the marriage or [b]leave[/b] it rather than involving a third party.
This one woman should not be a yardstick by which you measure others that you will meet.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@bijouxbroussard I'm always in involved in third parties problems and that's being honest and I dont even want to be involved .
I prefer if I was out on an island on my own
Indy74 · 46-50, F
@bijouxbroussard I highly agree bijoux. You can't judge all women by one. It's very close minded also.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@Indy74 it happened me with every woman I met , all done the dirt on me
Indy74 · 46-50, F
@riseofthemachine you just need to be careful and find the right one. Don't jump feet first into a relationship with someone you barely know.
@riseofthemachine You might want to look at what initially attracts you to them.
SW-User
@Indy74 Truth Sis!💯
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@bijouxbroussard you said it not me . What do you think from a woman's point of view . Your getting somewhere now
@riseofthemachine I can’t relate to that. I’ve never cheated on a partner, ever. I’d leave first.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@bijouxbroussard I never cheated on a partner either . I understand you cabr relate . I gets to involved that my problem , feeling sorry for them
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@bijouxbroussard at least you have to guys to leave without cheating , saves the other person a lot less pain .
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
At least you have the guts I ment to leave
@riseofthemachine Leaving because you’re unhappy is [b]honest[/b]. Cheating is dishonest and causes more complications.