A phrase that grinds my gears

You wanna know what grinds my gears... When people say the phrase "he/she is on the spectrum". That spectrum can refer to many things. Most commonly I've heard it used for someone with autism but it isn't exclusively used for that.

Why do I get annoyed by the phrase... Because if something is a spectrum then we are likely to all be on it. That's just how spectrums work. And with autism, this is very much the case as well. Everyone is on the spectrum, just very few of us are at the end of it that gets diagnosed as autism. I'd much prefer that you instead told me "he/she has Aspergers/Rett/PDD/social communication disorder/etc", or even just say autism. Like it's more accurate, informative and creates a lot more awareness of the specific needs of the person.

Anyway this is just a pet peeve. If you are autistic, feel free to weigh in. Especially about your preferences. Would love to hear how you guys feel about the terminology 😊

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RubySoo · 56-60, F

I worked with kids for the best part of 20 years and have assisted kids who were 'on the spectrum'.
A number had a confirmed diagnosis but many more were considered 'on the spectrum'.
Yet many others, not officially 'on the spectrum' showed behaviours associated with ASD.
I do feel that ASD is a bit of a 'cop out' bunching a broad range of people under the same under umberella. And i can comfirm that is a huge umberella! Ive been expected to support group of ASD kids in the classroom in the past.....and their needs are all so very different.

Qwerty14

@RubySoo Thank you. That was very well said. This is kind of what I mean. Saying only people diagnosed as having ASD are "on the spectrum" can be problematic. Also saying your kid is "on the spectrum" without really knowing that child's specific characteristics and needs isn't very helpful. It would be nice if the language we use helped better reflect the individuals that deal with autism

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Qwerty14 it isn't helpful when it comes to ensuring they get the best interventions ( where necessary) to help or support their individual needs. Grouping them together isnt helpful for anyone. ASD doesnt even hint at their academic ability or specific needs. It doesnt even start.