Anyone else have a relative who was unkind to you, show an example.
For a small example when I was a baby according to my parents my brother wanted my mother to throw me into the garbage can with the added qoute that the trashman would eventually find me.
He also put my toe once in a C-Clamp, cut all my hair off and didn't watch me like he was supposed to ensure I didn't fell off the couch on to my head, which I did.