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Have you ever fallen in love with someone you should never fallen in love with?

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP Best Comment

To be honest crushes I regret? yes. highly.

not because im sorry for the way I felt but because of the amount of pain it inflicted on me.

You know all I have to say to them is you didnt have to make me feel like a bad person for liking you that way I did NOTHING wrong fuck you one thing I will NEVER apologize for is having felt that way because love and romantic feelings do not need to be justified and you are conceited as FUCK to believe they do need to be.

I do not OWE you a fucking justification or an excuse, but if you MUST know WHY i feel the way I do I will consider this merely an opportunty to flirt with you and tell you.

love is a bit harder, it would NEVER get that far with someone who wasnt good to me. so im good at dodging bullets and its a relief that I dont fall in love easily. Crush like NOBODIES businesss but the amount of power that really gives you isnt much.

summersong · F

One could argue that is true about everyone I’ve fallen in love with...

iMystery · M

@summersong That's sad

Coppercoil · M

@iMystery I don't see it as sad.. I see it as her taking a poetic license in her response.

Lilymoon · F

Yes and this explains it lol

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iMystery · M

@Lilymoon 😖

Coppercoil · M

@Lilymoon but it has all worked out in the end Mrs. Moon-Coil ❤️

Lilymoon · F

@Coppercoil you betcha hubby baby 😁

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JustNik · 51-55, F

I don’t know that I’d say that. It never turned out the way I hoped, but I sure loved that feeling and I still smile over those memories. 🤷‍♀️

MorbidCynic · F

I have never been in love. But I do like the Buzzcocks hahaha

iMystery · M

@MorbidCynic You're the second user to mention Buzzcocks... Never heard of them lol

MorbidCynic · F

@iMystery theyre great, man!

[youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=51OB2YoC4sg]

SW-User

Peeps be thinking they love is forbidden.
I had a thing for a cousin when I was 13.TRY THAT.

iMystery · M

@SW-User I was once in that same boat... Though she technically wasn't a blood relative.

SubmissiveWolf · 41-45, M

I have, and it was one of the biggest mistakes of my life.

iMystery · M

@SubmissiveWolf Oh I know how that could be such a big mistake

Nutshell29 · 26-30, F

I have yes, I was too naive and young and dumb. I still do sometimes.

hartfire

Nup.
When it comes to forbidden zones, I stay well clear.
There are billions of people on the planet - therefore no reason whatsoever to risk relationships of the type that could only cause grief.

iMystery · M

@hartfire Lol yeah that forbidden fruit can really kick one in the balls 😂

hartfire

@iMystery Yeah - it should.

Moonpenny · F

Haven't we all? 🙄

Chasingthesun · 46-50, F

Yep

Northwest · M

My 9th grade biology teacher, but it could just have been her plunging neckline and micro skirts.

iMystery · M

@Northwest 😂 I had such a teacher in high school

PrivateHell · M

Yes. A few times. Hurts every time, but my heart won't learn.

iMystery · M

@PrivateHell Oh boy I know all about that!

Pfuzylogic · M

That is the only ones I fall in love with.

iMystery · M

@Pfuzylogic Must be tormenting hey?

Pfuzylogic · M

@iMystery
Isn’t a romantic relationship that way?
If not then j have yet to discover something different.

elafina · 36-40, F

yes, the opposite is quite an exception !!

HootyTheNightOwl

All of them thus far...

SW-User

Been there.

iMystery · M

@SW-User Done that...

TheSirfurryanimalWales · 61-69, M

Good song..

iMystery · M

@TheSirfurryanimalWales I honestly never knew it was a song

Celt43 · 46-50, M

Oh yeah 😬

iMystery · M

@Celt43 Do tell lol

summerwind · 41-45, F

Yes

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

Yes. Was thinking of her today.

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iMystery · M

@uncalled4 I can't say I have ever felt that way about a co-worker.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@iMystery I've been either lucky or cursed. Probably both.

iMystery · M

@uncalled4 I'm lucky to be working with lots of attractive women lol.

I wish I could post pics of some ladies in my team lol.

Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

No but I did tell myself I was in love with someone I never was. I wanted to feel loved so I thought I could just make it happen. Turns out that’s not how it works.