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What are the perks of dating old men ?

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I can't think of one.
Overlord · 61-69, M
I have to agree with you there and I'm one of them
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
Lol but you're an older woman
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
@Overlord: really but what about maturity levels ?
@juiceyangel333:
Chronologically and sexually I am at my peak dear ;)

Back to the Q: Do I date men my age? ...
I have, a few...It's always a disaster of sorts.

I date men , who are younger, when I do date...
Overlord · 61-69, M
@juiceyangel333: severely over rated, at the end of the day most of us are just juveniles wrapped up in an old skin we still laugh at our own farts and knob jokes
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
@Lunadelobos: lol a disaster why ? I thought your twenties are your sexual peak for women
@Overlord:
There is no set rule against that for me;
nothing is chiseled in stone , so to speak.

I personally have seen no benefit to this dynamic.
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
@Overlord: but don't you have more experience ...more interesting to talk to
@juiceyangel333:
Ever heard of the term *cougar*?
There is a reason for that.
Overlord · 61-69, M
@juiceyangel333: if we can stay awake long enough and if the short term memory loss hasn't taken hold
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
@Lunadelobos: don't people look at you funny ?
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
@Overlord: are you suffering from any of that ?
Overlord · 61-69, M
@juiceyangel333:if we can stay awake long enough and if the short term memory loss hasn't taken hold
@juiceyangel333:
Some of the most mature men I have dated were in their 20's and conversely, some of the biggest buffoons and liars, were my age or older.
And that's such a shame; you would THINK with age comes some wisdom , but not always.
Again, this is applicable to any person, regardless of gender.

But again, it's the roll of the dice. Yes I have dated some amazing guys my age, but they were too few.
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
@Lunadelobos: so you prefer the younger ones ?
@juiceyangel333: I enjoy the looks, it's oftentimes amusing.

KEY POINT: I am not there for anyone else's pleasure but my own happiness. That's what living is.
You finally realise that no one gives a SHT about YOUR happiness.
YOU are the Captain of your own destiny.
PERIOD.
So make it they way you want it.
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
@Lunadelobos: you're right most people want to see you miserable . They feed off of that
@juiceyangel333: In general, YES.

But it's not a rule carved in stone dear.

I would in a heart beat date a good man who is my age [b]who is a GOOD MAN[/b], and we have chemistry and so on and etc, blah blah blah ... :) !
IN a HEARTBEAT.
Overlord · 61-69, M
@juiceyangel333: err no not yet only selective memory loss when it suits me
@juiceyangel333:
Some do yes, the petty one, they want to bring you down.
Those ppl, you AVOID :)

You move right along dear.
CROSS out their names
and forget they exist.

You seek out, light, joy, acceptance, freedom and fun and love.
Take LOVE in any shape it comes to you ( He/she must be legal and consenting, obviously )

[b][center][big][c=#002673]Love it's precious, do not deny love to yourself :)
It's the Gift of life and the reason We are alive.
THAT IS HOW I FEEL[/c][/big][/center][/b].
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
@Lunadelobos: but you prefer the younglings ☺️
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
@Overlord: lol that best serves me too
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
@Lunadelobos: can't I pick the guy I want ?
Overlord · 61-69, M
@Lunadelobos: hey I'm right behind you on that one, if I had the choice of a younger woman or one my own age I know who'd I'd choose
@juiceyangel333:
Of course you can :) 🌈🌞👸🏻
You have free will.