And if you say you're a realist, I'm gonna hurl.
Amen to that. I loathe it, it's simply a phrase to say, imo. I don't know how many times people have called it delusional, as if we just live in an imaginary world. I wake up every day, realizing my deficits; they can't be ignored, so I make the
conscious decision to be positive. Nor is every day or week sunshine and rainbows, but I hold that hurt tight to my chest and scream if need be, perhaps a couple days, then move on with my life with a fresh outlook. I've also learned many things are followed with silver linings. They don't show up immediately and are often disguised so well that only a proper mindset will recognize them.
I hate the realist ideal. I'm a realist in every way, but choose not to mope around in my sorrow and cynicism. That's a trap for a miserable life. I know because I was practically a full-time pessimist. I honestly think some have been blessed enough to hit rock bottom, implementing a special kind of awesome to straighten out that attitude. I remain optimistic because I don't find it healthy to wake up every day expecting the world to f me over. I know it eventually will, but I wait for it to hit me at least.
I'd like a few people around here to see this. The realists that are no happier than I & often somber. They can kiss my butt with their ideology. Mine has immensely changed my life & I've never been happier.💋
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