Are you a forgiving person?

I am. So back in high school 1995, I had a bully, right?. Even after I had enough and beat her ass one day, I still had a little beef with her for about a year. My parents eventually told me to just let it go and forgive her, because a grudge isn't healthy in the long run.

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IzzyZ2002 · 22-25, F

Not it isn't but I wouldn't forgive forgive her right away if I was you. Why should we forgive bullies? I'm not a forgiving person.

latinbutterfly · F

@IzzyZ2002 I see what you are saying. Believe me, even after my parents gave me that advice, it still took some time to forgive her. Sure as heck didn't happen right away.

IzzyZ2002 · 22-25, F

@latinbutterfly I had a bully back in middle school. It's been four years and I still haven't forgiven her. My dad even said to forgive her. Hell no I won't! I'm tired to people telling to forgive.

latinbutterfly · F

@IzzyZ2002 I was the same when I was your age. As you get older, you'll realize that life is too short to dwell on the past.