Do we choose our life?

No, we are placed where we land. We are however in charge of what we do with our life. Where we start out has nothing to do with where we finish up in the great scheme of things.

I would say "no".
No one chooses to be sick, or poor, or hungry. You'll note I did not put "homeless" in this list because some people do, in fact, choose homelessness rather than giving up their booze or drugs.

No we make the choices after our lives are given to us

I don't hardly think this is the life I would have chosen

No. It throws us off-balance.

Partially.

yes

i wouldnt have choosen to life

I have

We don’t choose the circumstances under which it begins. But eventually we’re usually in a position to make certain choices that can improve it—or not.