Is this messed up or am I exaggerating?

We’re just friends.

But he asked me to be his valentine on feb 1st.

And this is what happened 😢.

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hlpflwthat · M

I think these peeps think your part of the convo is on the left - not the right. But you are in blue - correct?

RosaScura · 31-35, F

@hlpflwthat yes I’m blue

hlpflwthat · M

@RosaScura Any other day, you gotta shrug this off. Valentines dates are different if you ask me. He sounds like he wouldn't have said a fucking thing if you hadn't texted him.

RosaScura · 31-35, F

@hlpflwthat right?!?! That’s exactly my thought.! That’s why I was upset. Like if you didn’t feel like it couldn’t you have told me earlier? Smh 🤦‍♀️

hlpflwthat · M

@RosaScura "For some odd reason I'm just sitting here relaxing and enjoying today just fine" is pretty fucking vain I think

RosaScura · 31-35, F

How so ? Make me see it please @hlpflwthat

hlpflwthat · M

@RosaScura To me it sounded like "Staying home and standing you up doesn't bother me one bit. I prefer it to following through on the plans we made"

RosaScura · 31-35, F

@hlpflwthat He invalidated my feelings too didn’t he? When he said I should let it go?

hlpflwthat · M

@RosaScura And calling you 'dude' was really classy

RosaScura · 31-35, F

@hlpflwthat or the lack of apology or trying to reschedule right? As if I should understand his so busy schedule.

I have a professional job and am doing my masters and if I make plans with someone I’ll stick to them or rain check for a later date. It’s the civil thing to do isn’t it?