Would you be concerned about this?

My boyfriend of 16 months has not been on good terms with his nanny lately. That's why I was surprised when this morning, he texted her at 8AM this morning with 'Merry Christmas Emily 🎄❤🎅. Thanks for all you have done this year.

She replied with 'Merry Christmas xx'

Can't help but dislike the fact he put a heart on it and texted her early. Like she was on his mind and yet he says he does not like her 😕

Am I being unreasonable? I read it as he got up to go to the bathroom

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Viper · M

Um, I don't know him... but my first thought is Christmas love...

Though, yeah, kinda odd that he did it so early and before the bathroom? Unless he just read a text from her that was already on his phone.

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

@Viper No. She hadn't texted him before. He initiated it.

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

It was inappropriate on both their sides and not what their relationship should be like.

Viper · M

@Jenni855 True, but you also might be over blowing ... and it might of been nothing but a Christmas thank you.

(I don't know, just saying it might not be a big deal, other than in your head, again, I don't know).