Would you be concerned about this?

My boyfriend of 16 months has not been on good terms with his nanny lately. That's why I was surprised when this morning, he texted her at 8AM this morning with 'Merry Christmas Emily 🎄❤🎅. Thanks for all you have done this year.

She replied with 'Merry Christmas xx'

Can't help but dislike the fact he put a heart on it and texted her early. Like she was on his mind and yet he says he does not like her 😕

Am I being unreasonable? I read it as he got up to go to the bathroom

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perceptivei · 36-40, F

I understand your concern. Is she his type? Is she good looking?

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

@perceptivei I haven't met her. She is a bit younger. Normally, all I hear of is complaints about her 😕

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@Jenni855 A bit younger. Hmm. Look complaints mean nothing. It could be one of those love-hate things. Sexual attraction is weird sometimes, or he could be complaining just to throw you off.

I know the heart (love emoji) didn't surprise her, because she responded back with kisses! xx means "kisses you twice".

Unless you're subconsciously turned on by the thought of him being with another woman, I'd see what's really going on.