Would you be concerned about this?

My boyfriend of 16 months has not been on good terms with his nanny lately. That's why I was surprised when this morning, he texted her at 8AM this morning with 'Merry Christmas Emily 🎄❤🎅. Thanks for all you have done this year.

She replied with 'Merry Christmas xx'

Can't help but dislike the fact he put a heart on it and texted her early. Like she was on his mind and yet he says he does not like her 😕

Am I being unreasonable? I read it as he got up to go to the bathroom

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perceptivei · 36-40, F

I understand your concern. Is she his type? Is she good looking?

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

@perceptivei I haven't met her. She is a bit younger. Normally, all I hear of is complaints about her 😕

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@Jenni855 A bit younger. Hmm. Look complaints mean nothing. It could be one of those love-hate things. Sexual attraction is weird sometimes, [i]or[/i] he could be complaining just to throw you off.

I know the heart (love emoji) didn't surprise her, because she responded back with kisses! [b]xx[/b] means "kisses you twice".

Unless you're subconsciously turned on by the thought of him being with another woman, I'd see what's really going on.