How do you deal with not being conventionally attractive?

@JustGoneNow true, but there is an established conventional attractiveness for masculine and feminine people

@ShaythePanTransMan Yeah. Sometimes being that can have it’s disadvantages too, though.

@JustGoneNow For sure. I mean, if someone’s conventionally attractive, I don’t usually feel attracted to them. I’ve also heard that very conventionally attractive people aren’t regarded as being intelligent.

@ShaythePanTransMan I’ve fought my whole life against that. Always wondering if the person that’s in a position to make things happen for my band... sees my talent and can hear our unique sound... or if he’s just trying to get to fuck me, all the while trashing our life’s work.

@JustGoneNow Oh, that’s unfortunate. I’m sorry.

@ShaythePanTransMan I didn’t even put up pics here for the longest. I get tired of just being seen as my looks... and not what’s inside.

@ShaythePanTransMan ty 🦋

@JustGoneNow :( I’m sorry. I didn’t think about that....

@ShaythePanTransMan My looks have always tended to make me a target for those who want to try to take advantage of me sexually. The Harvey Weinsteins of the world, weren’t confined to Hollywood movies, I assure you of that. We all have our very own struggles... doesn’t make yours any less. 🦋

@ShaythePanTransMan I’m sorry for any sadness you have suffered too.

@JustGoneNow I’m sorry, that’s horrible :(
Thank you

@ShaythePanTransMan You’re welcome. 🌸

@JustGoneNow 🎂