we just got into our first argument...

I try to envision how’d I’d like to look back on the way I handled it, and do my best to handle it that way.

just breath, take somemoments, think about it, can something be done, is it real, is it true, can I be better, do I love the person or do I love myself and my "Stuff" more, do I want to progress or is it something about other person that you are not okay with; you will sort it out, if you get together, to sit, talk and act on it...