Is really there any way out?

When life isn't happen the way you want, can you change it?

You love your life, but you are living with toxic people. It's conflict where you want to leave but you have responsibiliy to someone you care so much and it makes you want to stay despite how terrible feelings in you.

With no back up plan, you against the world.

The constant the pressure, you become stronger until one day, you tripped and make mistake. One mistake screwing one world ending your dream.

To be honest, we don't like to play the lowest hand. But, we seem like running out of option.

We more lowest hand we play the more chance to win far away.

My question is, IF you are literally running out of option, what's your next move?

1. Fold, ending once for all.

2. Stay the same. Burnt out, figuring out the next move.

3. Flip the board. Change the game 360°. Be a jerk, let go your responsibility.

4. *your opinion, put your comment below. Let me hear your thoughts.

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CarleighJ · 36-40, F

I actually just posted on this topped few days ago.

"I don't believe in quantity over quality of friendship. You can't measure how many friends you have by how many you collect.

The same can be said about family too. While they may be within your family by blood or marriage that doesn't make them family. Their actions, how they complement your life and their good character defines if they are friend, family or foe.

That is why I am very selective of who I allow to get close to me and who I allow to have any part in my life.

Because the truth of the matter is, no one has the right to be in your life. That is a privilege you grant them. No one has the right to be in your life by default either.

If you're a friend then be a friend. If you're family then be family because that privlage someone has given you can be revoked at any time.

So yes, be selective of what company you keep."

Cut the toxicity out of your life, even if it is being caused by people you love. It doesnt matter if that person is someone you consider to be a friend. It does not matter if it is your brother, sister, aunt, uncle, cousin, mother in father or a grandparent. If they are the source of toxicity in your life by how they live theirs and treat you or other people wrongly then it is best for both you, your sanity and them.

You aren't responsible for anyone else actions but your own. You are not responsible for straightening out their lives. That is only something that they can do if they realize the toxicity and turmoil it causes in their life and in the lives of those around them or that have been.

You don't have to be an ass or a jerk to do what is responsible for all involved. Make a plan for your "out". Finachally where your going to go and once there get out. wish them well and live your without toxicity of others holding you back, without it clouding your conscious and without judgement of feeling guilty for doing right and being responsible for yourself.