Why do we want to rescue others but never ourselves?

But its so hard to turn the magnifying glass inwards

True. But I can take it on the chin. If it's a chance to improve myself, why not?

So you ARE rescuing yourself? That is good. How do you recognize it before its too late? Like before you get hurt, and have to learn a lesson. I am tired of learning lessons. I just want to be preemtive

@Hutchman: You live and learn. Part of life. No one is perfect. I just go with it.

But I take it from others. If there's room for improvement. I try to. Gotta really look at the whole picture.

Am I right or am I wrong?

I agree my friend. But dont you get to the point of saying I just want to be exactly as I am?

@Hutchman: Not really. There will always be room for improvement. 😊 But to each his own.