Can you change a narcissist

The decision to take care of themselves is one they can only make. And you’re only prone to a narcissist or anyone of a lower vibe if you match their vibe. It’s the same but in opposites. So the narcissistic/co dependent relationships. Excessive taking to excessive giving. Equal denominator no self love. So the transaction between the two is always equal to lack and neediness. Each need to learn to fill their own cup by practicing self love, or self care. Otherwise you’ll continue to have a shitty unbalanced equations with self and others. I don’t like this math either, lol.