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Were you ever worried about the thought of getting married?

I have no doubt in my mind that I have never loved a man more, nor has a man loved me more.
I have no doubt in his honesty and our friendship.
What frightens me is the question- ''will it always be like this?'' I understand people change and every relationship has tribulations, God knows our has in the past survived so much over the few years.Yet we are still standing,loving each other more then ever before because WE HAVE LEARNED. Is this the key? Did we master the key to a successful relationship?
A person can never have a warranty on a long life promise or can they? I have never let anyone too close to me, without getting hurt so this is a HUGE step for me.
I have some personal trauma due to my mother marrying and divorcing in her lifetime more then I could keep up. I think this is why I am thinking this through so thoroughly. This actually means something very important to me.
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Fernie · F
Go with the flow. No guarantees...yadda yadda and oh yah...I strongly suggest you live together before marriage if you're not already
Optimisticbird · 26-30, F
@Fernie haha we've been living together for 3 years almost.
Fernie · F
@Optimisticbird Great!!!!! No ugly surprises!
Optimisticbird · 26-30, F
@Fernie I have seen all the ugly and so has he. Definitely no surprises there. But I can tell you it was not easy in the beginning !
Fernie · F
@Optimisticbird No, it seldom is easy at first which is why SO many relationships end ...smart woman!!!