How do you feel when you are disappointing your parents?

How do you overcome it?

I tried to please my dad so hard but once I fall, I was labelled as failed.

No one wants to disappoint their parents but sometimes they pushed too much over the limit.

I'm not sure how does he see me now. He seems despise me.

I wanna leave him but, he is not healthy. He always got hospitalised.

I wanna look after him, but the words he projected to me like he wants me vanish.

I feel bad, angry and sad. I'm so messed up.

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Fernie · F

Then he needs to find an agency that will send nurses to his home. Don't for one second believe that you HAVE to live like this...you do NOT owe him your life. This guilt nonsense has destroyed the lives of many children. I know that we have been conditioned to believe that because someone is a parent...they can behave any damn way they want to….having kids does NOT automatically make someone a GOOD parent or mean that you owe them your life, peace and happiness. Get some outside help, feel good about yourself, don't give him all your power and free yourself