Even though it feels like you have been crushed and traumatised enough, what stops you from giving up?

I did give up. Women are not using the right bate to attract me. They advertise sex and attract sex fiends and deadbeat dads. I dont wamt a woman whose looking for that.
I want a woman who is interesting outside the bedroom too. Someone who pays attention to me and cam challenge my intellect and keep me in line with my moral compass.