Is that a desperation thing or a wiser with age thing?

[c=#4C0073]Ive noticed that most men distinguished in age appreciate bigger women more. I’m wondering is that an im old so I can’t ask much of a woman thing or an I realize size isn’t really all that important thing🤔 [/c]

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I think it's a number of things. For some I think it's the more mature perspective of "There's more to someone than looks." For others (like myself) it's an appreciation for the varied shapes and sizes of the female form. Keep in mind its more socially acceptable to openly appreciate a more curvier woman today. So men are more apt to feel ok in expressing there love for women of all body types.

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@SW-User [c=#4C0073]🤔 so societal pressures have lessened and therefore men feel it’s ok to like bigger women. If so the. Why does this happen after a certain age?[/c]

SW-User

@VioletRayne Well I think the shift in the culture has made it more acceptable to openly express that appreciation. Though there is definitely more progress to be had. As far as age, I'm not really sure. Many people I have known have always loved women of all body types without shame. The only thing I can think of is older men care less about what others think about the subject. They are more confident which means more likely to be less influenced by societal norms.

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@SW-User [c=#4C0073]Very Interesting indeed. So part of it is they don’t want their buddies to make fun of their choices in women and later in life they don’t care.[/c]

SW-User

@VioletRayne That's my guess. I never really understood that but I have seen it unfortunately.