Is that a desperation thing or a wiser with age thing?

[c=#4C0073]Ive noticed that most men distinguished in age appreciate bigger women more. I’m wondering is that an im old so I can’t ask much of a woman thing or an I realize size isn’t really all that important thing🤔 [/c]

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WelshLovely · 46-50, F

Can't ask much of a woman? That implies us bigger women are a lower standard to slim women.
It's about time we stopped treating all of this like a competition and realised that people are different and like different things and that's actually okay.
Women especially need to stop judging each other and support each other rather than being so concerned with what men like and don't like.

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@WelshLovely [c=#4C0073]Thanks for the tirade, but that was not my intention. Trust me I support all kinds of women. I’m just curious about something I’ve noticed. If it bothered you to read you could’ve bypassed this post all together. [/c]

WelshLovely · 46-50, F

@VioletRayne It wasn't a tirade just an opinion, so apologies if it came across that way. I just think that people find who is right for them and sometimes us women can be our own worst enemies.

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@WelshLovely [c=#4C0073]That's true but I don’t look down on bigger women. If anything, I have a problem with smaller women sometimes, but only if they have a stuck up attitude. Part of it is probably my own hang ups. I was skinny as a child and I hated it.[/c]

WelshLovely · 46-50, F

@VioletRayne The is it a desperation thing kinda set the wrong tone for me. I don't look down on anyone any more - life is hard enough and everyone has their own challenges without us judging each other too.
I have fat friends who wish they were skinny and skinny friends who cry because they can't put on weight. Everyone has their own story and whatever size they are, that's the important bit for me.