What is it with people who don’t accept responsibility?

@Fungirlmmm [c=#4C0073]Its so sad that people really have to search for a bright spot in their lives these days[/c]

@VioletRayne you have people like me that are generally happy and then you have the flipside of the coin and then in between. I think the difference in being happy and not is perspective. Do I have everything in life that I want? No, I don't, but I'm blessed with so much that it seems ungrateful to allow myself to wallow in what I don't have. I'll give you an example. I lost my son... I longed for a child and God blessed me with one but as quickly as I got him, he was gone. God blessed me with many nieces and nephews, soon to be 23 in total. So I can sit around and cry and boohoo about my loss or I can live in the moment with the beautiful children in my life. It doesn't mean that I don't miss my son, but I choose to live and be happy instead of living with a dark shadow over my head. Plus I hate when people try to pity me. People like the guy in your example do not last long in my world. He would be irrelevant to me quickly. Hope you are having a great day though.

@Fungirlmmm [c=#4C0073]I’m sorry for your loss, but I love your outlook. I think it’s natural to keep going. I survive daily but I do wallow a lot especially about my relationship status. But then again my mom always told me closed mouths don’t get fed. 🤣🤷🏾‍♀️[/c]

@VioletRayne Lol @ your mom.