What is it with people who don’t accept responsibility?

@Rutterman [c=#4C0073]He already has a child n three failed marriages at 35. He blames women. He says women r all jealous, dysfunctional, n illogical🙄[/c]

@Rutterman I'd be worried if he got pregnant :|

@VioletRayne Well there may be a few that are like that. But at some point you have to say what's the common denominator in this equation of failed marriages. And then he might realize he's looking at it in the mirror.

@ToyMan [c=#4C0073]I did; his response was that I’m a man hater, and women like me are the one’s raising the weak men that abandon their children. [/c]

@VioletRayne So basically he's admitting he's a week man.

@ToyMan [c=#4C0073]No he raises his son. The mother left the kid just to get away from him🙄[/c]

@VioletRayne I took it from your post that he left his wife/son. So he's raising him?

@ToyMan[c=#4C0073]He is raising his son alone. We were having a conversation and he said that a man is not at fault for abandoning his child. He said it’s the fault of the mother for either choosing poorly or being incapable of keeping him around. [/c]

@VioletRayne you know I can see that point. It is 50/50 responsibility and a woman should never lay down with a man that she knows isn't responsible and has signs of being a good father. However it is not the child's fault and they both should be doing what it takes to raise the child

@Fungirlmmm [c=#4C0073]Thats true a woman should never lay with a knowingly irresponsible male, but men are great at hiding who they are until it’s too late. There are a lot of single mothers out there who were with the father for years and then he decides he’s done and disappears on them. There is not garauntee that a guy is going to stick around and there are no sure fire indicators that you’ve got a good one. So women should just do whatever these guys say in order to keep them or never have a relationship?!? I’m not understanding what you see that I don’t?[/c]

@VioletRayne I agree. I have 3 sisters. 2 of them are single moms... 1 makes terrible choices and has children by 3 different men. 1 has 2 children by the same man that left her. I see it from both sides. :(