I have such a problem with letting go, and with change.

It sucks I get so attached to someone and when things change I cant handle it and I freak out and feel like shit and just don't know what to do with myself. I care so deeply about people, but that could be my worst flaw as well, as I want to be the most important person to them, when in reality that's not likely. So eh :/

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RubySoo · 56-60, F

. .eeeek...i could have written this.
I understand totally.
Im afraid i cant give u any advice.....coz if i knew hiw not to be this way....i wouldnt be. 😕

Plumouter · 26-30, M

@RubySoo I'm sorry you are too :(

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Plumouter sadly...ive got worse as ive got older. I didnt have this issue at all until i was about 40. I know how it began.....but its got worse since.

Plumouter · 26-30, M

<(^_^<) the best we can do is try to accept it, and then only can we change

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Plumouter yes you are right.....it takes me a long long time....

Plumouter · 26-30, M

@RubySoo don't give up though ❤

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Plumouter i dont give up. I dont retreat... tho i should at times x