I want to know

🤷you arent obligated to support him.And he doesn't need anyone to accept his choices in life, so you not accepting him shouldnt affect much.As long as you're respectful and don't call him nasty things or be rude then I see no issue.

People put a lot of expectations on family and get disappointed when it doesnt turn out the way they want.
Friends are for support and sometimes your friends are your family and sometimes they're just family.

You’re gay yourself, but are afraid of admitting it.

Let that mentality go, life is seriously way too short. I had a friend in the military who I didn't know until he got out, but was a trans. He loaned me over $2000 knowing I was using it for illicit means. Everybody has a lifestyle and the only ones I judge are people who manipulate, murder, or rape.

Live and Let Live.

Family over your personal likes.
If you were in trouble and they could help. Do you think they'd stall just because you didn't like their gender ?

Kinda sucks that you aren’t there for them. That’s like me writing my son off because he’s gay. That’s sad.

We're all a long time dead.
Either except and love them for who they are or don't

You're the "fabulous lover master"? 😏