Is it new friends or something else on his end?

So im 17 a girl, and on my Instagram there's a guy that is 23 that has been messaging me. we live in different countries. I dont mind it because i like talking to him and meeting new people. We have been messaging back and forth for a month or so now. and we are getting to know each other a lot every day. I like him as a friend. but im not sure if he feels the same. He always asks for pictures of me (not nudes) and always tells me how beautiful I am. And he tells me all the time he wants to meet me. so im guessing im asking what do you think he is feeling. Like just friends or something more than that. I can't figure it out bc the guys where i live are very straight forward and if they act like this then they usually like you.

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inflatablebimbo · 31-35, F

Not just friends, I am a pro at this here is what is going to happen:
1. He’ll work up more and more what he wants from the pics. He might start asking for a specific kink like feet or you in your favorite bra stuff like.
2. Eventually nudes (maybe not if he doesn’t care about nudity) but suggestive otherwise or specific like “take a picture for me of your tongue out and your eyes crossed”, stuff like that.
3. He will start requesting that you use your money to come visit him.
4. I have met up with people near me (no thanks on spending my money to fly to another country for what I am about to describe) It has always been the most awkward human interaction ever, it’s like Incels-R-Us and they totally break down without the internet. They are somehow both rude and dicks and the biggest pussies i’ve ever met at the same time. If you do this one meet somewhere public.

All awhile you’ll get nothing in return unless you like any of the above! I like some of number 1 (before the weird requests start) myself so I go that far with guys who seem fun but once they start pushing for 2 and 3 I stop responding.

I’m btw like 99% sure on this sorry to say. Just lots of experience on the topic! Pick which number is fun for you and go for it! When I have gotten to step 4 I have left and gotten into my car and driven home within 30 minutes, usually laughing. In another country other than your own you won’t be able to do that. Good luck!