I feel ugly all the time

I have so many issues with my body. I am 5'3 and 112 pounds but I am flatchested, have a horrible stomach which sticks out as I have inflammatory bowel disease and I look like a 16 yr old kid even though I am nearly 33. I despise how I look. Don't have any photos of myself as I look God awful in them and I wonder if feeling like this will ever pass?
Socially because I look so childish in the face and body, men see me as a kid sister and people younger than me treat me like I am a teen. How can self image be improved? How can I accept that I am ugly?

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SouthernRaised · 46-50, M

Post a pic and we will tell you.

Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

@SouthernRaised i am sure you are well-meaning but honestly that's not a good idea.. she doesn't need to be judged and evaluated.. it might help her see she really isn't ugly but the point is she needs to see that what others think doesn't matter

SouthernRaised · 46-50, M

@Adaydreambeliever I agree.

Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

@SouthernRaised and there are some really horrible people on here who say mean things just to be hurtful.

SouthernRaised · 46-50, M

@Adaydreambeliever That’s true. I was thinking she’s not nearly as ugly as she feels, but some people are mean just to be mean.

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

I know I would get nasty comments which would destroy me

SouthernRaised · 46-50, M

[center] Then definitely don’t do it. People suck.

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

@SouthernRaised I won't, definitely not