Two firsts: An observation perhaps..

Okay so like a month ago a girlfriend had a bacheloret party at a "male review".. ....whatev'.

First time for me. We drank, got silly, lost our voices and had a blast. Loud... Fun... Open.

~record scratch ~

I've a different girlfriend that works at a "Gentleman's Club".

Had never been to one of those either.

She temps my curiosities cat and I go.

I sit and have a drink with one of the other dancers...and as my friend is on stage...

I can't help but notice the crowd.

All quiet in their thoughts.. No sounds other than music. No fun being shared. Just a bunch of staring men lost.

WTF?