who is sexy ??

@polyandrym66 Everyone has their own priorities .... my friend

@Darina True.. And not all woman feel sexy and comfortable with a few more pounds on them..
I am talking from my own past experiences and personal preferences that thicker woman are much more sexy and appreciative of sexual attentions that thinner woman..

@polyandrym66 I think that the sexuality of a woman still depends on the man ...

@Darina What if the woman is in to women? I do understand what you mean though and in many ways I agree..... but there is something beautiful about someone able to see their own sexuality and beauty

@SW-User You are right ... a man can shake a woman's confidence ..
I'm not talking about everyone ...
many women get fatter after delivery ...
and a man can tell his wife that she is fat ...

@Darina Even if that's not quite what I meant...

@SW-User 🤔

@Darina I meant beauty is in the eye of the beholder; so behold your own :)

@SW-User I understand ... but sometimes the eye is blinded (figuratively) and the person does not see what he saw before

@Darina yes, when you say 'he' you mean anyone and themselves?

@SW-User No ... I just see a lot of girls on fitness
who came to lose weight at the insistence of their men

@Darina Yes, men can be evil that way and unsupportive

@SW-User 🙂

@Darina Loosing weight for a man, is not right. He is being a bully.

@polyandrym66
I think that we are all bad when we are overweight

@Darina I've known woman who are simply built big-boned and are naturally over weight.