Do you notice how people become more attractive when you get to know them more? Not just sexually

@SW-User It never happened to you?.. finding a parsons looks strange to the eye when you first meet them then you gradually started to find them attractive

@FacciaDiMerda Never. I believe that everyone talks to someone because they hold some belief that they find that person attractive.

@SW-User Even a platonic relationship?

@FacciaDiMerda Nobody talks to someone who is displeasing on the eye, not unless it’s under forced scenarios.

@SW-User Not if they have an amazing and bubbly personality..probably more common with guys then girls. Essentially we want to stay close to those who make us feel good therefore appear happy

@FacciaDiMerda I find that girls just say that stuff. When, I’m fact, they’re just as superficial as guys.

@SW-User I'm not just saying it its a psychological thing...maybe here its more common from where you are from but yes I've met people who weren't attractive but were treated like those who are attractive.. (always talking friendship wise here but it occurs in sexual attraction too)..in fact in school there were these people who were considered as 'popular'

Its all about confidence and how you view yourself actually..others treat you accordingly

@FacciaDiMerda Actually, it’s More about your role within the school, on a club or activity. Then there is the factor of who your friends were before and whether they continue.

Of course, I’ve also found that assholes always get a free-slip.

@SW-User mhm well if its how it is there can't deny it..I think we live in different social settings

@FacciaDiMerda You should stand back one day and observe from the outside.

Watch instead of thinking.