Which hurts most...

Speaking out and wishing you had not... Or biting your tongue and wishing you'd given voice to your opinion?

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Both can have long term repercussions, but the first paints a target on your back, so it can put you in a more precarious position.

Pambi · 26-30, F

@VeronicaPrincess Reveal ones personal position or remain beneath a rock of safety.

VeronicaPrincess · 61-69

PS: The first [i]can[/i] hurt more, but shouldn't stop you from speaking out - sometimes that's the only way to make things better. Choose the battles worth fighting, and ignore the senseless skirmishes.

Pambi · 26-30, F

@VeronicaPrincess It's often a challenge when choosing the right flavor from life's bag of Skittles.

VeronicaPrincess · 61-69

@Pambi It's also funny how we can get worked up over little things, while ignoring more serious affronts.

Pambi · 26-30, F

@VeronicaPrincess The ego is powerful indeed.

VeronicaPrincess · 61-69

@Pambi Powerful in some ways, fragile in others. Always enigmatic.. 🤔