Was there a particular time in your life when you felt snubbed or slighted?

I didn't want to die, but I was deeply hurt. My dad passed away and when I returned home to help with funeral preparations, my mom, sister and aunt treated me as if I wasn't even a part of the family. None of my suggestions were taken seriously. My offer to do any of the arrangements...from calling people to contacting the florist, running errands, picking relatives up from the airport, just anything at all to be of help and support was completely rebuffed. I had no responsibilities and no part in the planning whatsoever. It was a hurtful time of course, and their rejection made things so much worse.