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Why does she feel this way?

My mum seems to be not encouraging about my current bf. I mean I've had a childhood boyfriend who she wasn't encouraging about. And then I had an abusive boyfriend from 15-17. I hid him from her but eventually it came out and she was so disapproving and encouraged me to break up with him.

Now I'm 19 and I have a boyfriend from uni who treats me like a princess and I tell my mum about him, and the first thing she says is 'but what about Timmy??' Then laughs nervously. (My childhood boyfriend- who was a Christian and nice I guess). Then she asked a load of questions, is he nice, is he a Christian etc but she looked so disappointed. She looked so uncomfortable. And then I noticed she was weird and I think I said something like I really like him and she said 'I just don't want you to get hurt'. It made me feel worried myself. The whole reaction was so negative, nothing nice she said. This happened like a month ago.

Anyway today she text me saying she loves me and asked me how I am. I said I'm good and I've been hanging out with my boyfriend. I ask her how she is. And she completely ignores me.

I'm so upset, I don't understand why she doesn't like him and isn't saying anything nice, she's never met him!!
Im scared she's thinking it's not right (he's not the one for me by god) but I really like him and I thought God told me he's the one, I literally prayed to find the one a few days before I met him. I told her that.
MellyMel22 · F
[i][c=#BF0080]Maybe she didn’t answer how she was, b/c she’s upset about something else and didn’t want to worry you? [/c][/i]
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@MellyMel22 good point, but she seems to get a bit awkward whenever I mention him to her 🤷🏻‍♀️
MellyMel22 · F
@Itsprincess [i][c=#BF0080]I would bring it right up to her. Maybe call and ask if she’s okay and tell her you were worried and wanted to make sure since she didn’t respond.. [/c][/i]
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@MellyMel22 yea true i could just ask ! I think I'll Text her tomorrow, thanks 😊
You should never mix religion with real life haha

This proves it princess!
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@Jimmyorjames no it's okay I do agree it can cause problems. True. He's from Jainism. It's all because of fucking religion that she's not happy. Haha no not hate she definitely just isn't comfortable
@Itsprincess the joys of religion.... I'm glad I don't have any beliefs haha
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
SW-User
[quote]she's never met him!![/quote]

And that's where you're wrong kiddo! They definitely had some truckstop restroom shenanigans going on.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@SW-User she's never seen his face
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MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
It doesn’t matter what she thinks about your relationship
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@MURD3RM0NK3Y it matters so much to me what she thinks cos I want her to be happy with me
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
@Itsprincess Well you’ll realize soon enough that is your personal life and that it doesn’t really matter what others have to say about your private life including family
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@MURD3RM0NK3Y yeah I guess
Mk8155 · M
She's thinking some guy will take her little girl away
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Okay :/ @Mk8155
ConcealMySins · 22-25, M
she smashed timmy on the low
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
Maybe she just doesnt want her little girl to grow up
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@MartinTheFirst yeah maybe actually

 
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