My exfiance "needs" to talk...

Idk should I or no?

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BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

he's an ex for a reason - but if u are curious about it ask him what it is about before meeting him. Possibly he wants to get closure or maybe ur blessing if he's seeing someone else but i'd rather know what it is about b4 meeting my ex.

SW-User

@BondGirl84 Well, if it's permission then he needs to grow up.

Closure? I have him plenty. Lol

Maybe it's returning my stuff! xD

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@SW-User not closure for u closure for him! but yes if he wants to be with someone else he shld just get on with it! If he wants to return ur stuff it doesn't warrant 'needs' to talk!

SW-User

@BondGirl84 lol what kind of closure? I told him why we had to break it off. Had a long discussion about it.

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@SW-User if he was the one who got dumped but if u had a long discussion maybe he felt at the time he didn't get a chance to say what he wanted to regardless if u gave him a chance to at the time - i have been in that situation b4 - only guessing here on why he wants to chat but it maybe a possibility. If u do the dumping u don't need closure

SW-User

@BondGirl84 lol I know what it was about now.

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@SW-User oh do tell! Did u speak to him?

SW-User

@BondGirl84 Yeah, I did. He "needed" to ask if I was a virgin before him because he was scared that he caught something. 😒

We're "friends" now, but I'm keeping my distance. He's so obvious that he hasn't gotten over it.

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@SW-User didnt he know if u were a virgin prior to him? Maybe it's just my experience but I always had that kind of discussion prior to a long-term thing.... unless he was messing around but wanted to pin on to U! Well actually one guy I was with i never slept with him just... touched... literally just touched.... he was convinced u gave him aids cos his platelet count was low... I am totally clean & safe but he had no idea fluids needed to be 'exchanged' for any sort if infection! Worse still we both work in biology so u wud think he did know how it works! Lol

SW-User

@BondGirl84 lol right?! Nah, I told him he was my first way before, and now he questions it? 🤷🤦

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@SW-User that is weird.... yea sounds like he was messing around & trying to pin it on u... U dumped him u are ready to move on anyway forget him! U know what u did right & wrong so move onwards & upwards! Better things waiting for u... more so... better people waiting for u!