This guy🤦🏻‍♀️

Is being borderline stalker! I can't go into detail of his obsessive behavior these past couple weeks I have started uni but right now he is knocking on my door. He's been outside my room for about five mins now, and knocked a lot. This isn't the first time this has happened. I'm hiding in my bathroom.
I told him to leave me alone a couple days ago and he agreed but messaged me earlier and now that I've ignored him he's here again knocking.

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Itsprincess · 22-25, F

Thanks guys.. I think calling the cops is too dramatic and I am too shy to talk to him. Knowing him he would not leave if I told him his behavior is obsessive etc. He would probably walk straight into my room.

JRVanguard · 26-30, M

@Itsprincess Is there security? They wouldn’t make a big scene and then the school will be aware of it and will keep him away from you

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@JRVanguard I'm at a hotel waiting for a place in halls so I don't think so lol. They can't keep him away, he's in a room literally right by mine:/ so yeah.. thank you tho

SW-User

@Itsprincess if there is security then get them to remove him. Cops may sound dramatic but it might be the shock he needs to change his behaviour.

I think he would walk straight in too if you open the door. I he's still there in 10 minutes I would seriously consider calling them as this is obsessive behaviour.

JRVanguard · 26-30, M

@Itsprincess You can at least file a complaint and see if they can move him

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@SW-User he would try make me feel guilty. I don't think he's completely right in the head. I think he has gone now. Thank you:)

SW-User

@Itsprincess mention it to one of the staff at uni they might be able to have a word with him, if he's at Uni?

InOtterWords · F

@Itsprincess ok, call a friend, preferably a male one to come to your room and tell hi to bugger off

JRVanguard · 26-30, M

@InOtterWords Oh yeah that’s a good idea

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@InOtterWords I don't have a male friend here lol:/ he's gone now tho!

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@SW-User we are all students in a hotel waiting for people to drop out so we can get a place in halls. This hotel is crap lol

InOtterWords · F

@Itsprincess ok...hmm
What about female friends?

SW-User

@Itsprincess hopefully you get a room in hall soon

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

The girls in this hotel I'm not really close with:/ the girl I'm friends with is friends with him lol @InOtterWords

InOtterWords · F

@Itsprincess good so she can tell him, nicely, to bacdafucup

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

Lool. I'll tell her! Thanks @InOtterWords

SW-User

@Itsprincess can you look for student accomodation elsewhere?

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

@SW-User yeah ! I should be getting a new room soon actually

SW-User

@Itsprincess dont tell him where :)