I think that men should help with housework

Especially when his wife/girlfriend also is working. But most of the time I hear women complaining that nobody helps them and they have to do everything by themselves. Why? Why men won't help until women tell them to do so?

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bijouxbroussard · F

I grew up seeing my father helping with housework and knew no other way. I married a man who, as the eldest child, knew how to cook in order to help feed his siblings while his single mother worked two jobs. I was fortunate in that regard, because he was always willing to do his share.

Loretta78 · 46-50, F

@bijouxbroussard You are really blessed with that.
The only thing I have experienced in my life was:
Man = pascha
Woman = slave
:-(

NankerPhelge · 61-69, M

@Loretta78 You are only 30-something and you grew up with that? How come?

Loretta78 · 46-50, F

@NankerPhelge
1. My father was Pascha (my mother even had to crawl on floor and to wish the urine away when he peed on floor)
2. My former husband was Pascha (I had to earn money alone for him, our baby and me, had to take care for our baby completely alone and had to do the all housework completely alone and to serve my husband even his food to his bed)
3. My son (it's almost the same with him as with his father) 😭

You see, I am nothing but a very cheap slave. And many other women are at least in a similar situation so as me.

CopperCicada · M

@Loretta78 that really breaks my heart.

Loretta78 · 46-50, F

@CopperCicada I am sorry. I didn't want to do that. But it's the truth. 😭