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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
Intense following in a way that makes me feel pressured or uncomfortable after I made it clear where my boundaries are. It's only happened once.
CurrentName · 51-55, M
@PatientlyWaiting25
How long did the whole thing last?
From when you met him till the end
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@CurrentName only a month if that even.
CurrentName · 51-55, M
@PatientlyWaiting25
A month dealing with that nonsense. Good for you that you got rid of that person. Thank you for responding I Appreciate it

constance · 70-79, T Best Comment
Stalking to me means unwanted attention that you cannot block
CurrentName · 51-55, M
@constance
Yeah. I get you.
You're right.
That's as simple as it can get.
constance · 70-79, T
On here I don't find checking out profiles stalking, given the anonymity this site offers and the option to block anyone's attention you don't want. It allows you to see if you have interests in common and the opportunity to connect with like minded people.
CurrentName · 51-55, M
@constance
I see it the same way, but I keep hearing the word stalking and I wanted to understand what makes someone feel stalked in here.
ninalanyon · 70-79, TVIP
Surely it's only stalking if they go out of their way to make you feel uncomfortable, by making comments that are creepy insulting, etc.
When it goes beyond just looking at a profile and they try to stalk you offline * happened to me irl*
CurrentName · 51-55, M
@cherny
I believe you.
So having a VIP let's you see who they are
Makes sense.
Thank you for writing.
@CurrentName yeah but that doesn't mean they will stalk you offline
CurrentName · 51-55, M
@cherny
Right. That's why at first when I started asking about this I thought...who cares???.. let them stalk what are they gonna do???
But I've changed my mind. Even if they can't physically do anything they can turn coming her into some bullshit no one wants to deal with. Know what I mean?
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
When you get a message from someone that talks about recognizing where you live. And then another pissed off message when you don't respond. And then you have to block them and figure out which alt is checking your profile every three hours.

There's a few people here that have had problems.

Tbh though, I'm done with your obsession with this because you're a man and your skepticism is unsafe.
CurrentName · 51-55, M
@EldritchFox
Ok, you could have just, walked on by, you know,? Easy.
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
@CurrentName So could you, but three posts later you're still fixated on it. You asked to understand, correct? I hope you finally get it.
CurrentName · 51-55, M
@EldritchFox
I get it and I thank you.
Also my fixations are mine and I will continue to be fixated until I understand.
Just like you helped me understand, I hope you can also understand that and stop giving me grief.
Lol…… you’re starting to sound like a reporter or researcher here to write about our precious mental institution. 😅

 
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