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How do i deal with a man who keep chasing me despite my clear warning of lack of attraction for him as he is not my type and not attractive to me.

I find him extremely unattractive but he is not taking "no" for answer and keep chasing me and also when i started dating other guys he got jealous and started disturbing my dating life , maybe tomorrow even my marriage life !

I told him many times , even spit on his face saying he is ugly but he still chasing me! He was acting delusional about my rejection and kept chasing me.

I used to admire him at first ( which he might took it as attraction which is weird though, why would anyone confuse something like that as attraction).
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GoFish ·
Idk restraining order?
sahi81 · 26-30, F
@GoFish police not taking him seriously
GoFish ·
@sahi81 can you tell your friends? 😳🤐
sahi81 · 26-30, F
@GoFish why? yes
GoFish ·
@sahi81 for safety ..
sahi81 · 26-30, F
@GoFish i told everyone around me i believe, society even beat him up 3 times now, he changed his routes and way of chasing me but he didn't stop chasing!
GoFish ·
@sahi81 oh sorry.. i used to have a stalker neighbor when i was a teen but nobody would listen he like befriended my whole family and would bring them gifts 😒
sahi81 · 26-30, F
@GoFish same problem, but the man have bad reputation family ( his family have full of people sleeping around and cheating) so society took investigating his behavior and intentions seriously, but his wife didn't, his wife is denying even when provided proof she didn't even wanted to look, she kept believing not everyone from cheating family will turn out same, she thinks he is kind and loyal which he lied of being to save his face in society and also he is ugly unlike his father who used to still get women, so without proper reputation in society he can't even get a wife .

It's like she choose delusions and wishful thinking over reality or he must have brainwashed her !

Such people are really great actors and lairs!
GoFish ·
@sahi81 yeah for real.. i tried to tell some woman on here that he man was behaving suspiciously but she doesn't believe it.. people believe what they want despite reality i guess .. cant tell them anything 😳
sahi81 · 26-30, F
@GoFish i mean it's ok not to believe anyone blindly but why disbelieve without investigating negatives about a "person" 1st either ! People have both negative and positives in them! just have to find someone whose flaws are tolerable!

i think the problem is people rush into trusting fast and end up wasting years !
GoFish ·
@sahi81 yeah 😒