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Serial accuser.

My name is Nicolas Guzman. I provide my name because I am standing tall in the truth. I was falsely accused by my wife when I left her of assault, threats and firearms charges. I left because of her physical, psychological, financial and reactive abuse, her hidden destructive drug addiction she refused to address, lied about having cancer, was caught committing disability fraud, was fired from her job, got a DUI and his it from me claiming she lost her license for excessive speeding, had affairs and I eventually learned she is a pathological liar. When I was charged she immediately started a social media campaign against me with her allegations and sending my documents to my friends and family trying to ruin me.

The charges were dropped because she provided digitally alted images to the police and lied. When my charges were dropped she ramped up her social media circus claiming the charges were dropped because she had to escape to another country because she was in danger of me and that the allegations were true. She has harrased me, my family, my friends and my business associates for month's through multiple email and social media accounts.

She has posted digitally altered images (the one in my post), made claims she has been accepted for a book deal about her ordeal, that I am a member of organized crime and on and on and on.

She is obsessed with her image and social media and what she did to me was a means of discrediting me and to silence the truth about out marriage. I have learned that she has done this before to her first husband and her ex boyfriend and I am certain she WILL do it again. Her behavior is a disgusting insult to the struggle of those who suffer abuse and survivors of abuse.

I am not innocent of the troubles in our relationship, I made mistakes . I am not a perfect man but I have never assaulted a woman and a rocky relationship does not give someone the right ro lie to the police and falsely accuse someone.

She is now in hiding in another country. Hiding from the truth that is spreading in my city about her false allegations and who she really is. This ordeal has left me feeling numb and disconnected and the support of my community, family and friends has been greatly appreciated. I am grateful for this experience as hard as it wa as I learned a lot about myself.
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Miram · 31-35, F
🤔🤔 were you previously suspended for stalking an SW member??

This seems incredibly familiar.

I hope I am wrong.
NicolasGuzman · 51-55, MNew
@Miram well that's a strange coincidence because I have a past I'm not proud of but I left it behind me 20 years ago. When my first son was born almost 18 years ago it gave me even more drive to work towards being a better person year after year.

Thank you. No matter what strife may happen in a persons life you have tell your self, it was just a bad chapter in what will be a very good book.
Miram · 31-35, F
@NicolasGuzman

Some past you can leave behind.

Some you can't because there are victims who still have to deal with the consequences. And you should too. It depends.
NicolasGuzman · 51-55, MNew
@Miram I accepted the consequences of my actions and any karma that came. My old world was place where angry young men postured and lashed out at eachother.

Those of us that moved on from those days have grown and come to terms with who were. Now we a group of acquaintances and people familiar to eachother with a collective view of our responsibility in our actions. We've discussed that we can at least take comfort in having contained our behavior amongst eachother and we got what we deserved for the choices we made.
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NicolasGuzman · 51-55, MNew
@HoLeeFuk That's why the charges were dropped before I went to court. I've provided all the emails and messages to the police, I followed their instructions to message her via email and formally Tell her I do not want to be contacted by her, they also sent her formal warning and she continued. They said there is nothing they can right now because she is in another country. BUT it will all be waiting for when she returns.

I've spoken to the police about the possibility of filing a complaint of false charges, they said it is very hard but I can try. I also have a a lawyer looking into defamation action due to her public circus.

I won't stop until she is held accountable.
Miram · 31-35, F
Also, where are the images?
NicolasGuzman · 51-55, MNew
@Miram images of? The digitally altered images she posted?
Miram · 31-35, F
@NicolasGuzman

You said this



She has posted digitally altered images (the one in my post),

NicolasGuzman · 51-55, MNew
@Miram I wasn't aware I was allowed to post those. I will update.
Northwest · M
And why are you posting this on SW?
NicolasGuzman · 51-55, MNew
@Northwest the subject is false allegations is it not?
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NicolasGuzman · 51-55, MNew
@Sharon I support the police taking immediate action when a complaint of abuse is filed as there real victims that need to be protected asap.

But yes unfortunately there are those who take advantage of what is in place to protect the public and use it for malicious reasons.
It's disturbing behavior and an insult to real victims.
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Sharon · F
@NicolasGuzman The only "immediate action" the police take when a man is being abused by a woman is to arrest the man. It's very rare they take action against vfemale abusers, no matter how badly injured the male victim be. A paramedic here has posted about a few incidents of female perpetrated domestic violence and police indiffeence to it. Here's one such example - https://similarworlds.com/society/women-who-abuse/3497617-Another-one-some-people-say-dont-happen

 
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