Dilemma about wife going topless
My wife is quite comfortable about being topless. Most weekends she spends time outside tanning (NONE of her swimming costumes have tops) and most days she walks around the house topless. Friends and family are quite used seeing her without a top and random visitors/delivery people have never raised an objection...so she's quite happy that way.
The firm that she works for has a corporate box at one of our important rugby stadiums and sometimes host important guests there when a major game is being played. They recruit my my wife and two other married ladies from the office as waitresses/hostesses. There is NEVER any untoward behavior or horseplay allowed - everything quite above board.
Two days ago my wife and the other two ladies were approached by their manager to ask them once again to do their waitressing thing, but this time as there are going to be VIPs from Austria, they were each offered an extra 700 bucks each if they were prepared to do the waitressing topless.
The other two (after having 'phoned their husbands) have agreed, my wife asked me and I told her that it's no problem since most people we know have seen her topless before anyway.
She feels that it might be creepy though going back to work and knowing that everyone she works with will have seen her. It's not the being topless that worries her...it's the fact that everybody in the office will know exactly what she looks like under her shirt.
I'm confused...she normally doesn't give two hoots about ANYONE seeing her topless. She says she's probably going to do it anyway, but I was wondering...any of you out there with some advice, should she? Shouldn't she?
Thanks in anticipation 👍
Edit: OK ....maybe I didn't explain a bit of background...
Firstly, for those that were asking about her age, she is 14 years younger than me (yeah yeah I know...but it works for us) and she is in very good shape, lives a good lifestyle and takes care of herself.
Secondly, this is the only company she has ever worked for. She joined them straight out of school and consequently she has more than just a working relationship with the people. Indeed, some of the people (including one of the bosses and his wife) have become house friends of ours. None of the people are strangers, they're more like a family of long-time co-workers. It's not the cold, clinical working environment of the big corporate.
Thirdly, NOBODY is pushing anybody to do anything. It was merely a request.
Hope this clears things up a bit...
The firm that she works for has a corporate box at one of our important rugby stadiums and sometimes host important guests there when a major game is being played. They recruit my my wife and two other married ladies from the office as waitresses/hostesses. There is NEVER any untoward behavior or horseplay allowed - everything quite above board.
Two days ago my wife and the other two ladies were approached by their manager to ask them once again to do their waitressing thing, but this time as there are going to be VIPs from Austria, they were each offered an extra 700 bucks each if they were prepared to do the waitressing topless.
The other two (after having 'phoned their husbands) have agreed, my wife asked me and I told her that it's no problem since most people we know have seen her topless before anyway.
She feels that it might be creepy though going back to work and knowing that everyone she works with will have seen her. It's not the being topless that worries her...it's the fact that everybody in the office will know exactly what she looks like under her shirt.
I'm confused...she normally doesn't give two hoots about ANYONE seeing her topless. She says she's probably going to do it anyway, but I was wondering...any of you out there with some advice, should she? Shouldn't she?
Thanks in anticipation 👍
Edit: OK ....maybe I didn't explain a bit of background...
Firstly, for those that were asking about her age, she is 14 years younger than me (yeah yeah I know...but it works for us) and she is in very good shape, lives a good lifestyle and takes care of herself.
Secondly, this is the only company she has ever worked for. She joined them straight out of school and consequently she has more than just a working relationship with the people. Indeed, some of the people (including one of the bosses and his wife) have become house friends of ours. None of the people are strangers, they're more like a family of long-time co-workers. It's not the cold, clinical working environment of the big corporate.
Thirdly, NOBODY is pushing anybody to do anything. It was merely a request.
Hope this clears things up a bit...
