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Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 31-35, F
No for a few reasons.
I need the support of a bra.
I burn and don’t want sunburnt nipples.
Sweat.
Don’t need to give people reasons to stare.
I need the support of a bra.
I burn and don’t want sunburnt nipples.
Sweat.
Don’t need to give people reasons to stare.
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit Yeah. I seriously don’t want to be visually sexualized by every single person with eyes without my consent in public.
RedwoodBarman · 31-35, M
@JustGoneNow Unfortunately, this is an inevitability. Anyone who finds you attractive will visualize you in some sexual manner. Whether your fully clothed or not. It's human nature, sad to say.
@RedwoodBarman However, you can limit the attention. Being top less, in no way limits and would be seen by some as an invitation for unwanted advances. While I agree with what you’ve said, that in no way invalidates what I have said.
RedwoodBarman · 31-35, M
@JustGoneNow I'm not trying to invalidate, I'm sorry if I came off as such. I'm only sharing counter arguments. It's like a hobby of mine.
One could argue if a woman were topless people might avert their gaze so as not to be accused of such things as you said. Not everyone, clearly.
One could argue if a woman were topless people might avert their gaze so as not to be accused of such things as you said. Not everyone, clearly.
@RedwoodBarman The most blatant and brazen would definitely read it as a invitation. Those are the ones that I’m concerned with. Those that avert are most likely more gentlemanly and while they may make advances... under less revealing circumstances, they are less aggressive and less of a problem either way. I understand that it’s hard to understand this as a man but most of us women know what it’s like to constantly feel like we are on some sort of menu.
RedwoodBarman · 31-35, M
@JustGoneNow I'm sorry you have to experience such people in life. I've been approach by some aggressively persistent women, but I know it's far worse and frequent the other way around. I hope you will (or already have) found a gentleman of your own. Or a gentlewoman if you go that route.
@RedwoodBarman I’ve been very lucky to have a girlfriend that adores and respects me. Thank you. ☮️
@RedwoodBarman I hope the same for you. You’ve been very polite. ✌️
fanuc2013 · 51-55, F
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit nobody would stare if it was commonplace.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 31-35, F
@fanuc2013 really? I see people checking out women with clothes on now & not to mention the attention a shirtless guy gets. We must just have different experiences