K truth be told...

i don't think m into arab dudes. I mean they take the alpha male position to the next level and its not my cup of tea u know..idk😑
Do i really have a choice in the matter? 😦

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Miram · 31-35, F Best Comment

Lot tend to be extremely sensitive. They can't handle a woman that is more intelligent nor successful than them. And they have an unreasonable desire for control.

It is culturally enabled negativity and immaturity.

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Miram · 31-35, F

@nightjourney I have to deal with lot of it. It is not easy being a woman in a majority arab community because you find yourself having to give up your happiness to make others happy. And it is so normalized.

There is more love in someone who encourages and celebrates your growth rather than attempt to limit you so they can keep up. The second limit their own potential for love by limiting you.

Never ever make the same mistake twice.

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Miram · 31-35, F

@nightjourney

We don't need to be in relationships. The pressure to meet these ridiculous aged expectations is nothing but morally lazy nonsense.

Take your time healing before you let another settle in your heart. They better know to love truly or hit the door.

This time you wont have to be the one waiting because you will be wiser and whole.