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I Feel Pain For All Abused Children

i honestly cant think why people would. and sadly im related to someone who would.
from what i have heard from the police, hospital and the staff from my niece's old school its thought that she have been abused for a while but no one can get her to open up about it. her father was a drunk that lashed out at her and the only reason why i even knew she was even born was the police contacting me, trying to find a relative with a clean record to take her in. i hate to admit it but at first i didn't even want to meet her because of her mother.
after seeing her awake properly for the first time i can see that she was already broken mentally. lashing out in fear to anyone that would approach her. the doctors couldnt properly give her any medication of with out hurting her or them selfs. my daughter helped them by holding her tight against her body and holding her arms still. the crys that girl made while the nurses tried to give her injections. in desperation she bit my daughters shoulder as hard as she could drawing blood. it took about a month for her to give up fighting and just became a ragdoll. it took some one to force feed her for months as she would refuse to, i had to bath her due to her being unable to move properly. and the first time i ever heard her speak properly was well over 9 months after she moved in. even now she dosnt speak much but she dose speaks a little to a few people.
Serenitree · F
Ouch. Thank you so much for being a kind enough, caring enough person to take in a child with so many strikes against her, and dealing with all that.

How old was she when she came to live with you? How long have you had her on your care?
Miajackson · 46-50, F
@Serenitree she was about 10 and a half years old and she turned 12 last month
Serenitree · F
@Miajackson again...
Thank you for being who you are.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well she has been through a lot she has to learn to trust you or anyone really up until now also she has know was her drunken father so all those new people in her life must be very scary to her. So when they say approach with kid gloves well thats what you have to do tell her what you are going to do just do not do it to her because just doing it will freak her out and if you are trying to get her to trust you will . You may have to ask the doctor for special food to fatten her up slowing. leave food out for her let her know that is for her if she wants it any time. Do not be shocked if you find the food hidden in her room do not say anything leave it their. She will need a lot of help physically and mentally.
Miajackson · 46-50, F
@updown2020 i know she has a specialize shake that helps her matabalise food better and for a while she wont eat things she was given
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Miajackson · 46-50, F
@imLobo as in shout my name, im with her most the time when shes not at school
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Miajackson · 46-50, F
@imLobo i might look into that she has a baby monitor in her room as a just in case
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
copy/paste much?
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@sighmeupforthat Okay what's the suppose to mean?
SW-User
I am glad she has you..It will be a long road, but as long as someone loves her unconditionally she will pull through..I hope the very best for her and for you..🤗
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
eh, sometimes i think the fostering and whippings did me some good.


then again... saying that is not right.
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Paliglass · 41-45, F

 
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