Have you ever had to get a restraining order?

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Fairydust · F

Yeah with an ex, stressful time, ended up
In court after he beat me up badly.

SW-User

@Fairydust what a bastard.

Fairydust · F

@SW-User
Yeah he was very damaged, I just got caught up in his pain.

SW-User

@Fairydust My ex was a lunatic too. He was very abusive. I’m lucky I didn’t die from his hands.

Fairydust · F

@SW-User
Same, he tried to strangle me, other stuff too.
I think if I stayed he would have, I do understand where you’re coming from. Very messed up.

SW-User

@Fairydust I’m really sorry. I was strangled a few times too. God saved us.

Fairydust · F

@SW-User

We get through it and grow stronger.

Fairydust · F

@SW-User

I’m sorry you went through it too. 🥰

SW-User

@Fairydust I’m glad you got away from him. Your past doesn’t define you. I’m over it, I barely remember anymore.

SW-User

@Fairydust Thank you. I’m good now.

Fairydust · F

@SW-User
It was a hard time in my life, I am not a victim, I own it….

I went into an even worse relationship after it.
Took a while to learn my mistakes 🫣

SW-User

@Fairydust Damn, I’m soo sorry. You have to be careful who you go into a relationship with.

Fairydust · F

@SW-User
Yes 🙌🏻 which is why I’ve been on my own for years now. I can’t do that again.
I’ve had to learn and unlearn my own toxic behaviours, why I allow it…

I hope you’re in a better place 💞